Living Abroad Skills

In the last 3 years, I’ve been constantly been around students and been living and breathing a school environment. Living abroad has really pushed me to the edge and I’ve seen how I am changing each and everyday.

Through the time I spent abroad in teaching and living by myself, I have found myself developing new skills.

Here are the skills I have developed:

  1. Communication Skills - I’m constantly required to speak only in English to my students, whether I know their language or not, it does not matter. The point is: I’m a native English speaker and my job is to give them both a language and cultural immersion at school. This year, at the IVE in Hong Kong, I’m constantly struggling. Most of my students have a low proficiency in English and therefore, leads to having low confidence. Sometimes, I have to explain many of the vocabularies in my powerpoint and I am tested to my patience. I started to realize that my communication skills are improving significantly because I am forcing myself to explain things clearly and with several examples, and I truly believe these are strong transferable skills I can bring anywhere in any job in the future.
  2. Confidence Level - A few years ago when I first moved out to small town Quebec, I used to say to my roommates, “I will fake it until I make it.” It is true, because no matter how bad things were, I did not give up and never ran home. I sticked it out to the end, even if it was really difficult. Through isolation and hardships, I grew significantly and became a more confident individual, who has now transformed these horrific encounters of bad luck into stories of strength and perseverance. It’s true: Confidence sells.
  3. Patience - Through learning a new language to understanding a new culture to pushing my message / lesson across to my students, my patience is always put to a test each and everyday. Learning and understanding a language is rewarding - you instantly see the results and it is gratifying. This also applies to learning about a culture and even more so when my students understand me, even when speaking English. Being patient is important - it helps me to remember that hard work does pay off.

My life is richer in experiences because I pushed myself outside of my comfort zone and in return, I became more confident and patient with stronger communication skills.

Everyone has a story.

This is mine.

4 Comments

  1. I had no idea that you’re in HK. Have you heard the saying “Life begins at the edge of your comfort zone?”. I’m glad that your patience is increasing, it has given me a sense of calm in my life.

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